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It was around 2 days ago (i think) when i introduced the 7 habits of highly defective teens. As promised, I give you now the 7 habits of highly effective teens. Why just now? Because according to Sean Covey, the man behind all these values-- to understand the 7 effective teen values is first to understand what they are not.
By now, you're probably wondering what these habits are so I might as well end the suspense. Here they are, followed by a brief explanation--see what habits you already possess:
Habit 1: Be Proactive
Take responsibility for your life.
Habit 2: Begin with theEnd in Mind
Define your mission and goals in life.
Habit 3: Put First Things First
Prioritize, and do the most important things first.
Habit 4: Think Win-Win
Have an everyone-can-win attitude.
Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
Listen to people sincerely.
Habit 6: Synergize
Work together to achieve more.
Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw
Renew yourself regularly.
As the above diagram shows, the habits build upon each other. Habits 1, 2, and 3 deal with self-mastery. We call it the "private victory." Habits 4, 5, and 6 deal with relationships and teamwork. We call it the "public victory." You've got to get your personal act together before you can be a good team player. That's why the private victory comes before the public victory. The last habit, Habit 7, is the habit of renewal. It feeds all of the other six habits. The habits seem rather simple, don't they? But just wait till you see how powerful they can be!
What of each effective teen value do you already have? Share them with us!
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Friday, February 29, 2008
UA&P I AM S.T.R.O.N.G: Get In The Habit!
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very true. listening is very important than just talking
wow the part 2, very nice ktel
A refresher topic.Its good to be reminded because I tend to be lax in life nowadays.Thank you...
very cute topic, i really like it, hahaha, at last one topic i won't feel bad about
now i know what to do, do the right thing or at least now i know what i am, hahahaha
Is there a book about this?
Friends...It feels good to know you are out there working hard to promote this blog.Honestly, many teens benefir from it.
These habits are powerful indeed!
very nice!
people wont believe you if you dont believe yourself
hehe
very true! YOU are important..
Perfect Student ka na bay,kung magagawa mo lahat yang 7 habits.Just try our best!
Marami sa mga Pinoy ang may "Ningas Kugon" Trait.We should practice these good habits para ma improve naman ang mga Pinoy!
i think the private victory is very important for teenagers / young adults.. it would help a lot in our travel in life..
Hello Bloggers!Ang sisipag nyo ha. Good Job!
Isa sa mihirap na Habit diyan yung taking responsibility.Kasi usually nga, we blame things to others kapag may nagkamali.
Win-Win really works.Before you say NO to anyone,listen first then try to at least meet half way...
When you choose to work in a corporate world in the future...always remember to use Synergy.Very effective!
These works perfectly among our executives in our corporation.Not only for teens.
To Lisha: Sharpen the saw! Then your life would be more interesting!
there is a book about this-- 7 habits of highly effective teens by sean covey =)
One of the best things succesful people do is listening...
To Krystle;
Thank you for answering my inquiry.They must have this book at National Bookstore.I would really want to read more about the 7 habits.Could you also post more?
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Faye
Very interesting Topic !
If a guy practices all the 7 good habits,I want him for a husband!
This is it! Life does not have to be so complicated.Just follow these 7 good habits and you will be ok for the rest of your Life!
I wonder if they hold seminars on this topic so we could really apply it.It sounds easy on words.But how about on real applications?
If a lady practices all these 7 good habit,I want her for a girlfriend!
Is there a DVD that explains all of these in detail?
Being Proactive is not putting blames on other people.You could tell yourself,"I allowed this to happen, so I would be responsible for my actions."
I agree with you Lisha.Am quite sure you took that up at your mascom subject in U.P.?
Ouch! Why'd you slap me?
very popular book
Habits can be better by good change in your old ways.
Being proactive in life is more effective.
a good listener is a good habit to have
Prioritizing the things you should do is a good start
Good attitude is good habit
changing bad habits into a postive one is a great enhancement in your life
Reflecting in yourself is a good way to know where you should proceed in renewing your life
Knowing what to do proactively is great.
Having a positive image is good way to project yourself.
Negative attitude is a habit that can be enhance by practicing good ways. Knowing your defficiencies is a plus. Start doing positive things in life.
Focus focus focus your new direction, Listen listen and practice what you think is best for you in a positive ways
habitual lying is bad
irritating habits can be cultivated into a more pleasant one
Eyes rolling is a bad habit as well.
smoking is a bad habit and it is an illness
Telling the truth always is good habit
A contageous smile is a good habit and pleasant
What Buboy said is true.
going to church and or other building to attend a mass or religeous gathering is a good habit, and should be emulated.
Praying before eating a meal is a very good habit and righteous.
My two year old daughter prays before eating her meal. Its the proper way of teaching her at an early age.
believing in yourself is the first step in forming a good habit.
driving so fast in a heavy traffic and disergarding the traffic signs is a very bad habit.
Driving while under the influence of alcohol and talking on your cell phone is just plain bad habit and dangerous.
Using foul language is a bad habit especially in front of your own children.
Foul language as part of your vocabulary is a very bad habit
Descriminating another individual because of his or her nationality is not acceptablle behavior at all.
we all have prejudices in us, but if you use in in a wrong way, then it is a bad habit to do.
You would think that all adults do the right thing all the time, but most of the time they make mistakes and form a bad habit.
Being a role model to your children showing them the best way to do things is a form of good habit.
all of us have bad habits, but we need to recognized it and make a change for good
Filipinos have a habit of spitting in the streets, even if there are other people around.
In Singapore, it is bad and prohibited to chew gum and spitting is not allowed.
You go jail in Singapore for throwing trash in the streets.
In the Philippines it is common to see people just throwing trash outside the window of a bus or car! its a bad habit.
Picking your nose in front of others is a bad habit.
Scratching your private spot in front of girls in particular is a very bad habit and disgusting.
Bowing like the Japanese do is not really a bad habit but, it is their way of showing respect to others
Godd social skills are good habits to possess.
saying thank you after receiving a compliment from others is a good habit
Washing your hands every time you use the CR is a good habit.
Most men in the Philippines dont wash their hands after using the CR. Just observe it when you go to the Mall of Asia. Its pretty bad.
Talking while your mouth is full is a bad habit.
like what I've read so far about numerous comments. I picked up the good ones and I can share it my family. ThanksI
ome comments about habits are not fitting.
I love reading the comments, its lots of fun. it makes me laugh sometimes.
Accepting responsibility is a good habit.
Learning how to say I am sorry is good way to to form a respectable habit.
unsportsman like conduct by hitting the ball hard is a bad display of poor habit and bad gesture.
In America, it is common to see a man flipping another man by raising his middle finger and say a bad word afterwards.
I am certain that good habits are within yourself and if you use it correctly, then it a good habit to demonstrate to the public in general.
Synergize. But make time for yourself too.When you put helping others above everything else,you dont meet your own needs.
Be proactive:Do whatever works for you.Develop a method to improve yourself.
Hola Mi Amigas! Muchas Gracias!
Synergize.Cultivate a support network .Find a friend in school you can talk freely with,someone to turn to when you want to accomplish a group project.
Being proactive in life will enhance your ability to accomplish things easier.
prioritizing your tasks cn lead to better outcome.
Think big and do a win win project.
be assertive and be positive in life
follow through on all your tasks and get feedback that are positive
Listen to the opposing views, it will give you additonal ammunition to enhance your ability to come out ahead.
sometime you have to make mistakes and learn from it. Repeating the same mistakes can be a set back.
good!
GREAT!
Be an active listener
wow!!!
interesting :)
thanks for summarizing the book for us :)
hiiiiiii everyone :))
trying your best when you do things is a good trait
nice entry!
i'm blog hopping!
consistency and follow through will go long way for you
post more :)
cool :)
very helpful post!
how's life? hahaha
i need good habits!
procastinating will set you backwards hence, you must do what you can do for today, and not wait until tomorrow.
practice what you preach.
Girls...Do we really do those bad habits? Oh yeah. Maybe unconsciously,like scratching our front? Ngeeeks. Nakakahiya naman talaga. Sorry.
i'll buy this book for my kids
Picking out food from your teeth wiyh your tounge is a bad habit.Wacth for that.girls too.
post more!
hmmm these aren't easy to do
how do you tell a person with a bad habit,without hurting his feelings?
GO IMC :)
it was a good read :)
Boys tend to eat too fast.Meals are suppose to be a pleasant time with your family.Dont just shub it to your mouth.Enjoy and have a conversation.
The book on manners says'dont spit the seed of a watermelon to your spoon,but get it with your fingers
Nice post Tel :)
Sharpen the saw! I try to renew and better myself everytime
HI ates and kuyas!
I'm an effective teen!
I am proactive :)
I have 5 of the 7 habits! Yay!
nice
TY
thanks krystle!
i need to get myself more habits ..
people tend to forget the importance of
one's self
i need a good habit
i have a friend who is nice enough to share me one of her good habits ;)
thanks a lot :) this really helps :)
these seven habits are excellent tool to enhance your social skills
active listening is powerful
reflection on yourself may help boost your motivation
think big and always be on a win win situation
synergy is great fo your soul
go to bed early and be wise
always try your best in all you do
learn from the experts and choose the ones that suits your needs
be a winner and not a looser
choose a good group that will enhance your skills
we are responsible for our own action
gdont forget to go to church regularly, your spiritual needs is important
try to be positive always
CEO's needs this as well, it is a good reminder for them. They started from the bottom in the beginning too.
a thing that you do for 15 consecutive days - habit
use good habits and leave bad habits behind
smoking is a bad habit
loving is a good habit
i have a sleeping habit, do you?
habit of reading good books
i read a lot
i want to learn the habit of good listening, coz myu mom usually gets mad because i dont listen
choose a habit that will help you become rich... habit of saving?
are you happy today?
i guess so. happiness is also a habit
maybe
relax and join a habit of walking...
habit of going to the gym
habit of closing the door twice
i good topic that i can ponder about
hahahaha
very true
follow a good habit of eating good food
it seems that you are prcticing your ooh sound food, good,,
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