Krystle tells you
You have heard of Stephen Covey’s 7 Habits of Highly Effective Persons and Sean Covey’s 7 Habits to Highly Effective Teens. Now here comes The 7 Habits of Highly Defective Teens. According to Sean covey, the key understanding the 7 habits of Highly Effective Teens is to understand what they are not. So before we share to you the 7 Effective Teen Habits, we first present the 7 Defective Teen Habits. Enjoy. =)
Habit 1: React
Blame all of your problems on your parents, your stupid teachers or professors, your lousy neighborhood, your boy- or girlfriend, the government, or something or somebody else. Be a victim. Take no responsibility for your life. Act like an animal. If you're hungry, eat. If someone yells at you, yell back. If you feel like doing something you know is wrong, just do it.
Habit 2: Begin with No End in Mind
Don't have a plan. Avoid goals at all costs. And never think about tomorrow. Why worry about the consequences of your actions? Live for the moment. Sleep around, get wasted, and party on, for tomorrow we die.
Habit 3: Put First Things Last
Whatever is most important in your life, don't do it until you have spent sufficient time watching reruns, talking endlessly on the phone, surfing the Net, and lounging around. Always put off your homework until tomorrow. Make sure that things that don't matter always come before things that do.
Habit 4: Think Win-Lose
See life as a vicious competition. Your classmate is out to get you, so you'd better get him or her first. Don't let anyone else succeed at anything because, remember, if they win, you lose. If it looks like you're going to lose, however, make sure you drag that sucker down with you.
Habit 5: Seek First to Talk, Then Pretend to Listen
You were born with a mouth, so use it. Make sure you talk a lot. Always express your side of the story first. Once you're sure everyone understands your views, then pretend to listen by nodding and saying "uh-huh." Or, if you really want their opinion, give it to them.
Habit 6: Don't Cooperate
Let's face it, other people are weird because they're different from you. So why try to get along with them? Teamwork is for the dogs. Since you always have the best ideas, you are better off doing everything by yourself. Be your own island.
Habit 7: Wear Yourself Out
Be so busy with life that you never take time to renew or improve yourself. Never study. Don't learn anything new. Avoid exercise like the plague. And, for heaven's sake, stay away from good books, nature, or anything else that may inspire you.
As you can see, the habits listed above are recipes for disaster. Yet many of us indulge in them regularly (yes, you and me included). And, given this, it's no wonder that life can really stink at times.
What defective teen habits do you have and what do you intend to do with it? Click on the comment button and share them to us!
Brought to you in Support of the I AM STRONG organization of UA&P
99 comments:
Nice post tel :)
Is this a new book? I want to buy!
Love this post, very insightful!
i agree. blaming others for everything shows irresponsibility and immaturity in dealing with things and situations.
thanks cara!
mine? hmm blaming others for everything haha
i have a tendency of wanting to be right all the time. its something i HAVE TO CHANGE! Thanks for this
i always pretend to listen. *sigh*
I have many things i have to work on to improve myself. i will use this as a guide. thank you!
Don't cooperate-- im a slacker, and i can be really lazy. i depend on my other groupmates to do the work. i have to stop this!
Don't cooperate-- im a slacker, and i can be really lazy. i depend on my other groupmates to do the work. i have to stop this!
thats why its good to be around people who influence you well :)
guilty as charged here, hehehehe, especially habit 1
wow si anonymous, sunod sunod yung comment, hmmmmmmmm, hahahaha
haha im guilty of some of the things listed :( waaHhH
waaaaahhhhhh, i do all habits, i'm a bad person, i hate myself, waaaaaahhhhh!!!!!
this post will make me realize that i'm a no good person, huhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhu, i was made for nothing
ktel nice post, made me realize something about myself, i think i should change, for the better
hahahahaa, hindi ako ganyan, mabuting damo eto mga repapips, di ako makakarelate diyan, hahaha
parang gulong lang naman ang buhay alam mo yun, minsan nasa taas ka, minsan nasa baba
i love this topic, great post ms agbayani, big fan right here :)
mabuting bata, ang labo mo, ano sinasabi mo diyan?
great post guys, i shall hide my identitiy
great blog you guys, great post, you out did yourselves, kudos
these habits are just bad, i'm not like that,promise
it just boils down to maturity... dba?
krystle great post, another krystlean here
hey, what's your source, where did you get this?
Ms. Agbayani, you out did yourself this time, very nice post
i am a walrus, did i spell it right?
wow there is such thing as kyteleans?
you are the master of yourself. you should know how to motivate yourself. that make you human. if you can't do that, better know yourself. you might be lost or something.
its because of the freakin MEDIA!
i always react, that's why i was charged with disturbance of peace, went to jail, and then there, am a criminal
i love this site, your blog looks great, other blogs suck, I am strong rulessss!!!!! another krystleian here!!!!
don't be defective
love your family
love yourself
love God
i'm a very bad man, chicks dig that right?
hahaha! woohoo. yea! way to go.. bad boy rocks my world!
hahaha panalo ka boy next door.
very nice post,we students need this
Anonymous said...
Ms. Agbayani, you out did yourself this time, very nice post
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Jem! ahahahaha
not me, i'm robert, not jem, jem is a myth
krystleans said...
i love this topic, great post ms agbayani, big fan right here :)
KRSTLEANS?! hahah jem!!! youre such a fan ahahahha thanks for helping us with the blog=)
we are all guilty of such habits...tsktsk. thats why we all need to change that. wait for the coming posts, i will show you naman the 7 habits of highly effective teens =)
yeah, si jem yan, nagfefeeling cool yan, weh....hahahaha, peace pare, mahal kita
Mine: wear yourself out. this is so me!
Nice post
first habit, ganyan ako, hahahahhaha, kaya napapaaway
great post guys
great blog you guys
I have this habit of putting off things for tomorrow...thts why i never get to get stuff done on time..and if i do, its not my best =(
i blame people for all my booboos. i should out grow this. thanks for this post. great eye opener!
wow im guilty of alot of habits listed here. how embarassing..
we should recognize that we need others in order to develop, learn and do things better-- so COOPERATE!
very interesting..
i have read the 7 habits to highly effective people i did not know that there's one for teens! cant wait ti see what the effective habits are!
this is a very good way of showing how blogs are to be used. im sick of blogs that are used a diaries by some blog owners! kudos to you!
wow. its a negative pot but it cuts right through me! very straightforward, very insightful. thanks i am strong
what are the 7 habits of effective teens?
i've just realized that i've been a defective teen this past few months..
now, i'm goal oriented and i'm ready to change and to be a catalyst!
thanks ate krystle for the post!
interesting!
The word "defective" is TOO harsh
cool!
there are so many things wrong with me hahahahha
im flawed, not defective. making me sound like a robot!
guilty as charged!
so negative!
il change, yeah i know i should
oh well!
its not wrong to be spontaneous but if we do everything with no specific goal then thats where the problem lies
i dont want to be blamed for stuff evn if i knw im responsible for it..heck i dont even like blaming myself!
wow lots of comments! thnks everyone! haha
i like this post..made me realize things
im too competitive sometimes that i frequently get into fights with others cz of it..
i talk and talk but never listen.
im like that too..i always complain that nobody listens to me but in truth, i dont like listening to others most of the time
im bad at priorotizing..im lazy lazy lazy! i end up cramming..i put aside stuff that i know matter just cz im lazy
this is funny...defective habits haha but its true..
cometition is good but too much competition is harmful..
Not wanting to go to scholl is my defective habit.
using drugs is a defective habit
always answering and talking back to my parents is a defective habit
Drinking excessive alcohol is very defective habit
using foul language is a defective habit
Cussing other person all the time is defective behavior
always looking for a fight is a defective habit
pretending to listen and out the other ear is defetive behavior.
not saying thanks for everything that I received and frowning
Picking my nose in front of others
not taking a shower at all is a defective behavior
Pretending to be sick all the time when your are not is defective behavior
a workaholic and not giving up
suicidal tendencies is very defective behavior
shoplifting while shopping is defective behavior
Too lazy and dont want to do any work at all is very defective behavior
Eating too much and not quiting all the time, gaining too much weight until too sick.
taking too much over the counter drugs is too defective
Running away from home is a defective behavior
Stealing what is not yours and repeatedly is very defective behavior
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